Love isn’t supposed to have conditions. But for my sister, it did.
Without hesitation or guilt, Erin gave up her adopted daughter after having a biological son. As I tried to comprehend her cruelty, she simply shrugged and said, “She wasn’t really mine anyway.” But karma had already arrived.
We hadn’t seen Erin in months. She lived a few states away, and with her pregnancy, we gave her space. But when she gave birth to a baby boy, the whole family decided to visit and celebrate. I loaded my car with gifts, including a special teddy bear for Lily, my four-year-old goddaughter.
As we pulled up to Erin’s home, I noticed something was off. The plastic slide Lily loved was gone. So was her little sunflower garden.
When Erin answered the door, she was beaming, cradling a swaddled bundle. “Everyone, meet Noah!” she announced proudly.
We all cooed over the baby, but I quickly noticed something strange—Lily’s presence was completely erased. No photos, no toys, no drawings.
“Where’s Lily?” I asked, still holding her gift.
Erin’s face froze. Her boyfriend, Sam, avoided eye contact. Then, without a trace of shame, she said, “Oh! I gave her back.”
My stomach dropped. “What do you mean, ‘gave her back’?!”
“I always wanted to be a boy mom,” Erin explained as if it were obvious. “Now I have Noah. Why would I need a daughter? And don’t forget, Lily was adopted. She wasn’t really mine.”
I stared at her, horrified. “She’s not a toy you return to the store, Erin! She’s a child!”
“Relax, Angela,” she scoffed. “It’s not like I gave up my own kid. She was just… temporary.”
That word—temporary—hit me like a slap. Lily had called Erin Mommy for 2 years. She had trusted her. And Erin had discarded her like she was nothing.
Before I could respond, a sharp knock sounded at the door. Sam answered, revealing two professionally dressed individuals.
“Ms. Erin?” the woman asked, flashing an ID. “We’re from Child Protective Services. We need to speak with you.”
Erin’s face drained of color. “CPS? But… why?”
“We have concerns regarding your adoption process and your ability to provide a stable home for your son.”
A neighbor had reported Erin for abandoning Lily, triggering an investigation. As CPS officials questioned her, I watched her confidence crumble.
Days later, I began searching for Lily. Weeks turned into months. I hired a lawyer, contacted agencies, and followed every lead. Then, one morning, my phone rang.
“Lily hasn’t been adopted yet,” my lawyer said. “She’s still in foster care.”
I was already grabbing my car keys. “I’m coming, Lily-bug. I promise.”
The adoption process was long and grueling. But finally, after three months of paperwork, interviews, and home studies, I was granted a supervised visit.
The Family Connections Center was bright and cheerful, filled with murals of smiling animals. My heart pounded as I walked inside.
And there she was—sitting at a tiny table, crayons scattered around her.
“Lily?” I whispered.
She looked up, hesitant. “Auntie Angie?”
I dropped to my knees, arms wide open. She hesitated, then ran into them.
“I missed you, Lily-bug,” I choked out.
She pulled back, her small hands on my cheeks. “Where did you go? I waited and waited. Mommy left me… she promised she’d come back, but she didn’t. Why did she leave me, Auntie?”
Tears blurred my vision. “I didn’t know where you were. But I looked everywhere for you, sweetheart. I promise I did.”
She nodded, serious beyond her years. “Miss Karen is nice. But she doesn’t make pancakes like you.”
I laughed through my tears. “If it’s okay with you, I’d like to do more than visit. Would you like to come live with me?”
Her eyes widened. “In your house? With the big windows?”
“That’s right. And I made a special room just for you—with pink walls and butterflies.”
“And Mommy? And the baby?” she asked hesitantly.
I swallowed hard. “No, sweetheart. But you’ll have me. And Grandpa. And Grandma. Just the three of us.”
Her voice wavered. “Is Mommy still mad at me?”
I hugged her tighter. “Lily, listen to me. You did nothing wrong. Nothing. Sometimes grownups make mistakes—big mistakes. And what happened wasn’t your fault.”
“Promise?”
“I promise. And I promise something else, too. If you come live with me, I will never, ever leave you. That’s what real family means.”
Three months later, Lily came home.
The day I signed the adoption papers, she flung her arms around me. “We did it, Mommy!”
Mommy. The word I had dreamed of for so long, from the little girl who had always held a piece of my heart.
Life wasn’t perfect. Lily had nightmares. She hoarded food. She asked painful questions about Erin. But with patience, love, and therapy, we healed—together.
And Erin? CPS eventually closed their case, but she was required to take parenting classes and undergo check-ins.
As for me? I got everything I ever wanted.
Lily turned six last week. She’s home. Where she always should have been.
Because sometimes, the family you fight for is the one that truly belongs to you.
